By Estela Calápiz. Peninsula 360 Press [P360P].
Sitting like every Friday in this Victorian house in front of a Blues Quartet: (keyboard, saxophone, guitar, drums). Waiting for my friend to arrive, I look at the regulars (more or less all my age) I realize that almost none of us represent our age, not only our presence but also the ability we have to dance, there are couples that are so nice to see smiling, hugging each other -moving sensually- enjoying holding each other's eyes. It is a place for people who know music, who like music.
I reflect and tell myself that we are a brave generation that is aging with dignity; at my age I do not see myself as "old", I am not one of those people who are waiting for death, I have some suitors and some friends with whom I accompany myself on this path. As for my partner, I am interested in having a full sexuality. People who reach this age should understand that there are many ways to be sexual, sensual, reinvent themselves! They have to leave their past behind, realize that that person they were no longer exists, that their love routines can change and if in the past they did not enjoy sex today they can learn new ways and explore their body and their personal needs. Leave behind sexual taboos, fears and complexes. Life is like a play that is performed only once".
How many dedicated themselves to work all day long to arrive home tired and not having time to enjoy the beautiful courtship of love. An unsatisfied life where boring sex did not satisfy them, but on the contrary was unpleasant and frustrating and although some tried to be happy with a "second home" the only thing they did was to repeat the same formula with the disastrous results of tiredness and more problems; and if they were religious they fell into "feelings of guilt" for the so brought and carried word of "infidelity". If they only knew that "Till death do you part" has been a slogan of resignation to a lifelong slavery. Nothing is forever, everything evolves, everything changes and if the couple does not evolve they will live an empty life? and if only one evolves for sure they will look for a person at their level. Because in the end we do not come attached to another person. To whom we owe fidelity in the first instance is to ourselves.
At our age we can still feel free, we can let our hair down, try for the first time to live in the "Organosphere", and if your member is no longer erect, learn other ways to satisfy yourself and satisfy. Women who did not know orgasm with their husbands and if they were frigid will be amazed to discover that they are multi-orgasmic. For now I leave you with this reflection, I await your responses. I am left listening to a song that these days I like a lot ?Mujer que bota Fuego? with Manuel Medrano and Natalia Jiménez: ??no puedo quitar el olor de ti de mis sábanas nuevas?
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